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Musings on Mothering

  • Writer: Jillian Koscielniak
    Jillian Koscielniak
  • 9 hours ago
  • 2 min read
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"Motherhood didn't take your artistry. It intensified it. It gave you rawness, truth, contradiction, depth. The world needs exactly that voice." -grace gulley

These musings have traveled in tiny mothering moments from my heart to paper. Mothering two wildlings has cracked me wide f*cking open and has helped me remember the importance of creation.


The outcome of these creations is of less importance than the act of just making space for it.


I once heard that your art doesn't shine unless you share it.


So if you've been looking for "permission" to release your raw, imperfect (and most likely vulnerable) creations to the world...it's time to unleash your art my friend, even if it's just a whisper.


enjoy the art show :)




POSTPARTUM


It may be uncomfortable.

It may be messy.

It will feel like eternity.

Let it be.




ARRIVING


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YOU WILL


You will make mistakes.

You will doubt yourself.

You won't know what the result will be.


You will disappoint others.

You will be misunderstood by family and friends.


You will feel the fully complexity of your emotions.

You will unleash tears, anger, frustration,

and you will laugh and experience so much beauty.


You will grow.

You will trust yourself more and more.

You will love harder than you ever imagined.


You will be an exceptional mother.



HOW WE "DISCIPLINE"


Is there really a right or wrong or is that just to please and simplify our own ego?


What if instead we pause, listen and observe without judgement?


What if we tune in to what feels aligned to our values and be open for others to do the same?


Will our aligned actions disappoint people? Absof*ckinlutely


We can make soul-aligned choices without harming others intentionally, but also know we will be misunderstood in the process.


That's completely "normal" when paving your own path in motherhood.



More musings to come <3


xx

Jillian

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